Was banned from [email protected] for calling out a Mod’s misuse of the Egg prime directive to criticize trans people for helping out trans women in denial of their trans-ness. They’re denying the validity of signs of being transgender, what the actual fuck, this shit is not okay. Then after banning me that dipshit locks the post so no one else can reply on it. How is this not power-tripping?

Modlog history for my account: https://discuss.online/modlog?userId=11993717

  • Sasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    71·
    1 month ago

    YDI

    If someone acted like this towards me, told me I absolutely had to be trans, I would have stayed in that egg way fucking longer. You don’t get to decide someone is trans anymore than a mod does, the only person who can decide is the person themselves.

    You’re being hostile in what should be a friendly and welcoming space, the mod did a good thing here and you probably need to spend some time reflecting on your actions.

    • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.onlineOP
      14·
      1 month ago

      I apologize for being angry and losing my cool, but come on, that mod shouldn’t even be a mod there, he’s a femboy, not trans. Why should he be allowed to sit there and deny the signs of being trans to other trans women then lock the post after silencing me so no one can criticize him anymore. Am I the only one who sees that as wrong?

      • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        0·
        28 days ago

        He’s a femboy, not trans.

        The sub says “and other eggy topics”, no? Also from how heated your messages were I’d say a 2 day cool down is fair.
        Edit: just saw this was 10 days ago, mb 😓

        • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.onlineOP
          04·
          27 days ago

          If someone is a femboy questioning they could visit the community but a cisgender non-questioning femboy shouldn’t be a mod there, it’s a community for trans and questioning people ya know. Only people who mod should be those familiar with the trans experience, not cis people. @[email protected] ain’t one of those people.

          • First Majestic Comet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
            3·
            27 days ago

            Just for clarification I’m Agender, I’ve said it before, I only say I’m a femboy and not a femby because femby is way too often perceived as transfem which I am not. I’m also not a cis person I’m Isogender. It literally says it in my profile. Please don’t spread lies about me because you’re upset about a temporary ban or that I locked an extremely controversial thread due to Egg Prime Directive violations.

            Just so we’re clear on this, I’m not the only one who thinks this. Ada is very much on board with enforcing the Egg Prime Directive and you should be lucky you only got a temp ban, especially after the shit you posted in this thread.