• RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    Dunno how many parents are here in a nonserious community, but I’m curious what y’all are doing. Probably more of a progressive crowd here even if conservative because Lemmy.

    We told our kids everything when they asked, and some more when they didn’t, about all drugs including alcohol and even energy drinks. We didn’t demonize the drugs, if anything we told them pot would be a better choice than alcohol, but we told them about the negatives and even some of the positives some might have - but the dangers of drugs like heroin we hit pretty hard. Yeah, they can be fun. Some have a really steep price, though. Probably started talking about this seriously when they were 8, but they knew about it all earlier.

    They already told us about kids bringing vapes to school in 5th grade. Mostly just kids being stupid trying to be cool. 6-8th shit gets more serious. Odd knife threat, real vaping, kids being sent to the hospital after pounding 5 energy drinks with 200mg caffeine in each one. And we’re in a “good” school district. Funny, in my day it was kids trying to smoke in the bathroom or loading a soda cup with vodka they got from wherever. Now it’s vapes, energy drinks, and I’m waiting for the alcohol stories. Most of the kids doing this stuff early have some f’d up parents from what my kids tell us.

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      lol, that’s definitely not going to stop them.

      “I love getting baked on scary movie night!”

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    My father caught my smoking weed at the back of the house at 16 after I had finished a shift at 0300 glass collecting in a local nightclub. He looked pissed and said we’ll talk in the morning. The next morning he sat me down and said he smoked weed until I was three years old.
    His advice was.
    “smoking weed is fun and can help you relax but you must always remember that there’s more to life and weed may stop you from seeing that, stop you from doing the important things in life, so don’t let it become your entire personality.”

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      Seems like a good dad. I’m a line cook so I used to smoke a lot. I’ve cut WAY back and am definitely enjoying shit more now. Nothing against people who smoke a lot, it was just a bit too much for me.

      It’s pretty pervasive in the restaurant industry. I had a chef who asked me to help him move his Hobart mixer back to his house. Damn thing weighed around 200 lbs, and hauling it into the bed of my truck was a pain in the ass. When we get it back to his house, he proceeds to light up a bong, offer me a hit (I declined, never smoke and drive) and then he decided to pay me in a ton of weed he had grown.

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    “Drugs are bad because I tried all of them and they were bad” my father said. I don’t doubt he tried some, but he was also a teller of tales.

    Mother said not to do them because they are deceptively kind. She’s come around on weed being less worse than alcohol.

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      My mother told me not to do any illegal drugs because if she ever had to bail my ass out of jail, she’d’ve been pissed.

      I’d like to say it worked, but honestly, I’ve just never had the interest.

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        I’ve never done any drugs that were illegal at the time of consumption. The state of nj says weed is legal, so who am I to argue, I’m not the overarching government!

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            Extacy and LSD are a surprisingly good combo, especially for a well supervised nature hike. You need about 1 babysitter for every 3-4 tripping people, but they can smoke weed to help pass the time. Don’t drink. The tripping people will inevitably want some, and those two drugs frequently don’t play nice with alcohol.

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      “Drugs are bad, m’kay?”

      Sorry, I’m binging South Park right now and the way you started your comment made me read the whole thing in Mr. Mackey’s voice.

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    My preschool drug talk was ‘Here, puff on this’…

    Not even joking. The very first word I remember is joint.

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    I don’t honestly remember getting a drug talk (besides the DARE) program.

    I do remember being taken to 3 separate third party sex talk plus a bunch of it in church at many different ages.

    Man what a brainwashing our folks did to us.