Everytime I’m at a demonstration with a lot of police violence like lots of Palestine demonstration I get very nervous, my heart starts racing, my knees get weak and my breath becomes short. I even get it when watching videos of police violence or when I see SWAT team busses outside of demonstrations. I’m not the only one that feels that way but others that I see at every demonstration deal with it better, I feel like. They can get in the zone better. So do you have tips?

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    1 month ago

    Not really a good tip but

    “What if you pretend to be brave, even if you’re really not?” - Winnie the Pooh

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    If you are easily frightened, just stay away from the front line. If you are going to engage in some kind of disobedience or similar, doing it alongside a supportive group of comrades should give you strength, I think.

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    That sounds like a panic attack, so the general advice works here too. Here’s some advice from people smarter than me.

    At an actual demonstration I would suggest repeating the chant, and being prepared. Being prepared is having all the notes you need in case things go south and that you are connected to your group. And supplies like water and milk of magnesium in case of tear gas. No shame in wearing a helmet or any amount of protective gear you can tolerate, the police do.

    Those nerves are a big part of the reason for the chants like “not another nickle, not another dime.” Shouting them with the chant leaders should help with those kinda nerves. Let your fear and nerves flow into it.

    If you’re having a panic attack while watching videos, turn them off and take a break. Nothing good comes from watching too many of them.

    • Being the only person in protective gear at a protest can sometimes lead to being singled out and beaten harder by the police. That doesn’t mean it’s a bad idea, just something to keep in mind.

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        1 month ago

        Yeah that’s a good point, we should all probably wear helmets to any protest with a high potential for police brutality, concussions suck. All other body armor can be mostly concealed in clothing.

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    Apart from the advice from others I think you should remember that what you’re experiencing is a pretty normal reaction when confronted with (possible) violence. I think any sound human being will get nervous from fighting. It’s a good instinct to have when it comes to survival. Being aware of it being a normal reaction might help you to accept it in the moment.

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    I get very nervous, my heart starts racing, my knees get weak and my breath becomes short.

    That’s adrenaline, your body is preparing you for fight or flight. If you do neither, you might “freeze”.

    One thing you can do when it happens is to start yelling and shouting. Yelling and shouting aren’t just for intimidation, it is also a way to take deep breaths and get more oxygen in you. This will allow your brain (and muscles) to work better.

    You should be going with people you trust, have a “protest buddy”, agree on a meeting spot should you get separated. Come up with contingency plans (either as an individual or a group) for various situations.

    You also have to decide for yourself whether you want to fight or hang back and help those who do (both equally valuable roles). Decide this before the protest, so when the moment comes you’re not debating with yourself. Again, this goes back to preparedness and planning.

    Speaking of, have a backpack with water, some snacks, first aid kit, eye-washing liquid, no drugs, no weapons, no alcohol, no glass bottles, no razors, no knives. Having a backpack with some essentials will also reduce fear by making you feel more prepared.

    Btw, the feeling you’re describing never goes away, it’s a (useful) natural response, you have to get used to it. It’s like when your body starts convulsing when it thinks it’s out of oxygen. Free divers still experience it, but they know that it is just a warning, not actua suffocation (a body has lots of time, minutes of oxygen, left once the convulsions start).

    And lastly, music. Listening to music before/during a protest also helps.

    I don’t smoke, but a lot of people do and apparently nicotine can help with nerves. So there’s always the chemical option, too.

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    Everyone gets at least a little bit of nerves.

    Try to remember that you’re surrounded by people who will render help if something happens, and any injuries sustained will heal in time.

    There’s not really “good” advice to give, because everyone’s different. Take some time to find something that works for you whether that’s a pre-protest warmup, meditation before or after, breathing exercises, ideological or philosophical motivation, etc. Something is going to help you slow your heart rate and keep your head about you.

  • Are you going alone or with a group?

    If you’re going alone, then maybe going with a group will help.

    If you’re going with a group, then talk to your group and tell them you’re getting a little nervous. Hopefully they can comfort and pump you up!

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      Also talk to them beforehand about what you will do in specific situations, like if the police attack or threaten arrest or if it just feels like to much for you. Decide where to meet if you’re split up. You could have three meeting places for the start, middle and end of the route of the protest.

      And within your group, you could have pairs or triplets of people who agree to stay together no matter what. Within these, the member least willing to engage further in an action or protest should determine when to leave with no shame or questions asked.

      And talk to people afterwards too to debrief. This whole concept is called an affinity group.

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    That sounds like a panic attack. I get them, but in a different contexts from protests. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy has helped me. You don’t have to pay for a therapist, plenty of resources online. I try and pay attention to what I am feeling. Just observe it without judging it/myself. Like, ok I am now feeling short of breath. So I’m just “observing” my breathing. It helps me keep calm and not to spiral towards more panic.

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    In addition to the advice about a group, like if you don’t have a group try to join one and talk to them and so on: In the meantime think about your limits and needs for yourself. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed and you don’t have to be able to deal with the stress in a certain way. You can still contribute meaningfully, if you know your triggers and are mindful of them. Decide beforehand, what to do if a situation is too much, like getting out or getting some distance or trying calming exercises.

    Edit: You might even decide not to go to a protest, if police presence is too high and that’s okay too. You can still connect to people and help organize or render support.

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    Have you always had this experience at demonstrations or did it start after you’d been to one or some? Is this a post traumatic stress reaction?

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      I sorta had the same before going to demonstrations, I remember watching a video about police taking away skateboards from playing kids and being mad about it. Akthough it’s not the same.

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        It sounds like anxiety then. Others in this thread have given helpful tips. If they don’t work for you, maybe there are other ways of participation to help further the cause. Wishing you the best.