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Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 month ago

I have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.

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I have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.

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Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 month ago
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    30 days ago

    Do your glasses have Bluetooth headphones built in? Kinda looks like it.

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      Those are bone conductors (that I’ve doctored the logo off of), and they keep a soundtrack on me. I just like music a lot! They’re not part of my glasses though.

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        Ahh it’s how your hair falls in the photo. Made it look like they were all part of the same thing.

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        29 days ago

        Where did you get those glasses? I need to get a new pair at some point and have been looking for interesting designs

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          They came from here!

          https://www.aoolia.com/product-audition-round-purple-glasses-cid342-og10359-c1

          I’ve got them in that blue/yellow gradient too.

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            Sweet! Thank you for that

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