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Cake day: July 19th, 2021

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  • Key difference is that Bitcoin people want/need their numbers to go up,up,up as a measure of success.

    Here, we are hoping to cultivate a healthy community (at either/both the instance and fediverse level). From my experience on various subreddits, focusing on growth is not a good way to do this.

    Communities are defined more by who is not allowed in than by who is in the community. Lemmy phase 2 kicked off back in June, and it still needs some time to find its footing at a sustainable rate of growth.












  • I’m not trans, so defer to others as appropriate

    The question of “the children” will come up:

    • It would be good to understand the recommended treatment program that is implemented for trans youth (hint: it’s not surgery).
    • What is definitive is that care for trans youth saves the lives and well being of the people who have access to it. You can easily find creators on Youtube or TikTok who will talk about their experience firsthand, whether they received treatment when they were young, or wished that they did.
    • On the “permanence/regret/detransition” angle that people are concerned about: there’s a stat that someone else can probably post, but the rate of “regret” of gender confirming care is significantly lower than many common cosmetic procedures. Detransitioners are a small minority, and transphobic detransitioners who are outspoken about being “tricked” or something are even smaller still.
    • Other likely thing is bathroom stuff, but like most transphobia it gets nonsensical fast since the only way for that to work is for someone to think “I can always tell” which is always false false false.