Love seeing friendly people like this. I would replace Musk and Trump with you on the planet.

Those apps are toxic and will kill your confidence unless you are really good looking. Girls have hundreds of matches for showing up. But they are so shallow so they filter out most of the guys and most likely miss a lot of people they would really like. :)

Actually I would go as far as saying that social media has made girls think they are some kind of a super creature, deserving of thousands of guys just admiring them. Lols.

I went full Lemmy for a while but have to admit I’m reading reddit again, but without their dumb app. Just the web browser.

Looking through a few subreddits, see what’s new for five minutes. I don’t post anymore, don’t have an account.

More like your own, mate. :)

Total brain damage on some of the Karens.

I guess they see themselves as strong independent women. :)

Definently only old thinkpads. I had two new ones break on me so now I’m not buying them anymore. One had mouse pad just go numb, the other one had the left control key stop working. I don’t even travel with the laptops. :)

My stationary keyboard has worked for like ten years, and so has my mouse…

I wonder how many of those guys are actually trying to put women down, and how many are just trying to be helpful and talk to another human being.

Lol, you sound really angry. If you want to get better at this, you should probably remove your ego from the equation here and look at it objectively.

I see a lot of anger from both genders these days on social media. Take a step back from all of that and date people who are not into all that shit. It will turn your brain into mush. :)

Social media is harmful for you. It’s become even worse than the news now, since it’s actively targeting you with algorithms, trying to get you to be upset so you click around. It’s going to serve you the worst of humanity fighting eachother.

Just touch grass.

I’m surprised this is news to people but I guess sex education varies between countries maybe.

I agree :) And I let them make this mistake for that reason too. Just like you say, it’s best to go out there and try things and sometimes fail.

I still fail when I go my own way but I prefer it, because when I succeed, it’s also my own win!

Happens all the time yeah.

I tried to find where it was but can’t find it…

I almost never even downvote because it’s an active choice to push down someone’s opinion.

I also had bugs around window rules to be honest.

You are right, it could be easier to try and get some kind of a basic connection again, but the problem will still be there… And you will have to figure it out.

But if you use that connection to remember what you like about eachother, it will make that hard conversation easier, unless your boyfriend gets angry and feels trapped and cornered. But I don’t see how you can solve anything without talking about what’s going on, and sooner rather than later. :)

But it’s hard to give advice about this. People are so different and when I read your words, I have imaginary people in my head since I don’t know you guys. :) But I wish you luck anyway!

He is tired of you but doesn’t have the courage to leave the relationship. Its pretty typical.

If you changed your appearence in the last 3 years and maybe put on extra weight, that could absolutely be a factor too.

He is listening to music to avoid the talk. Because he knows that discussion may tear the relationship apart, and he doesn’t want to be alone (just guessing). Or he wants to be alone but is too “nice” to tell you that he wants out. Also the third behavior, to act as if everything is fine, is about avoiding the big talk.

Obviously everything is not fine and you need to have that serious talk, and if you don’t get honest answers, you should break up with him.

He could still love you, but could be that he is not attracted to you anymore, and he feels ashamed about that too. I don’t know. Just talk.

If he is not going to be honest, you can’t fix the problem. You are doing more then your part in trying to understand and fix it. He must too.

People did this to themselves.

Unless we see some kind of regulation, today’s big tech is tomorrow’s big brother.

Yeah I don’t see how anyone can not see it’s Google… Who else is even close to having all our data? All the web searches, mobile android play backend, maps, Google streetcar, etc etc… They know everything.

Good for you and have fun.

I don’t know which people you are talking about, but if it’s adults and you are a kid, then there are some reasons behind that… :)

My kid planned a trip to Croatia with his friends and they managed to book flights that made them spend the entire night at airports, because they wanted the cheapest price.

Counting in that they had to buy airport food and hardly slept at all, and came home wrecked and had to sleep all day, meant that not only did they pay more for the trip than directs flights would have cost, they also lost a day when getting back to sleep and rest…

I mean, it’s fine, but it shows inexperience and unwillingness to listen to adults who may have good ideas… :)