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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • This should be standard, people don’t become less productive when working from home. Vast majority of wfh folks I know spend more time and are more productive at home. If my company tried to pull this nonsense (it wouldn’t because its actually a great place to work) I’d immediately start looking for a different job. On Linkedin and other platforms I literally don’t even consider or look at non wfh positions.

    Also I don’t know what jobs are thinking. Its stupid to think someone will change jobs for less pay and move into a non-wfh position from a wfh one. Those jobs should always be avoided, because they clearly think you’re too stupid to do basic math.



  • As someone who is generally a fan of your first 2 points, the latter two really get to me sometimes. I like the characters being forward, but if I indicate that I’m not interested I’d like them to kinda back off. Sometimes I don’t even talk to certain companions because all their dialogue options are veiled flirtations. I’d like some characters to be friends and others to be romance options.

    Gale is just a straight menace, every single interaction feels romance adjacent. Halsin keeps hinting at it, not nearly at the level of Gale but definitely is a constant undertone. Shadowheart was on my multi-romance train but, I decided to go forward with Laezel so I had to cut that one off. So Shadowheart is firmly in the friendly companion camp now.

    Karlach, Astarion, Wyll, and Shadowheart are my mostly not too flirty companions. Astarion in particular has been great, I think I pissed him off in the early game with all my good choices so he just acts like a good friend. Which I appreciate.

    I honestly didn’t realize that affinity would activate romance mode for everyone. I just didn’t want to piss some characters off and make them leave the party because they hated my character. Also didn’t want to miss any affinity related (non-romance) quests.

    Also shoutout to the biggest bro, my non-companion, Dame Aylin. She’s the bro that I want my other friend companions to be.



  • I’d be interested in petting doggos and hanging out if that’s what you mean by tailored, but not any traditional therapy. Going affects my employment opportunities, which I care about far more than my mental health. If I wanted to not suffer everyday of my life I’d shift my priorities, expectations, push my boundaries or off myself. Since I haven’t done those things yet, things must be fine enough.

    I would have a very bad opinion of any version of myself that was happy or content while being aware of all the terrible things we human beings get up to.

    The only way I could be convinced to genuinely engage with therapy is if I thought it’d achieve some material goal of mine like making more money. Proving some positive correlation in earnings or attainment of things that men normally want with therapy would probably help. I’d reluctantly go and commit completely if I thought it’d significantly improve the likelihood of achieving my current or future goals. No dogs necessary at that point, just data.



  • I don’t and never have, but I’ve always known this about myself. You know yourself best, if you think you’ll be someone that enjoys the changes that come with age then don’t let anyone else’s experiences make you doubt. Enjoy and live your best life, we all experience life differently and that is a good thing.