I think that there is positive masculinity and there is nothing wrong with a positive masculinity. I find some stoics as my role model. for example Marcus, and also I used to find a lot of help from the Enquiridion from Epictetus . For example Marcus Aurelius was all about compassion.

1. Work where the original author is dead. (The money is not going to the author).

I cannot afford a vpn what do you recommend?