T. T. Perry

@spaduf @Phoenixbouncing
Alan was expected to fight the Kens while the women stayed in the car. That’s the part.

@Wanderer thanks for sharing your thoughts.

@Rodeo interestingly, I’m learning a lot from this interaction. Like about how men normalize day to day misery and disconnection. So I’m very glad that this thread exists; thank you for being honest.

@Wanderer @Rodeo

“Day to day shit is your own problem”

Yeah I find your attitude toxic.

@starlord try this?

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/irtjxedcce6tq7lq0vabg/The_will_to_change_-_Bell_Hooks.pdf?rlkey=y6s0sw8oi5wojj89vx2pp50s6&dl=0

@dylanmorgan

The Will to Change made me feel more seen and understood than anything Warren Farrell ever wrote. It’s a must read.

@AttackPanda @PaupersSerenade

I understand what you mean. I highly recommend the book “Language of Emotions” as an aide in identifying and respecting one’s emotions.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8048177-the-language-of-emotions

And of course, talking out loud about your emotions with people you trust.