i just broke up with my bf who ghosted me bc he realized he’s gay (im a woman). i don’t even think i like guys but i have this compulsion to ask out my friend who i blocked to have a man that treats me right instead of the other guy that ghosted me, and also to make him happy.
he kept talking about how he could treat me better than anyone else, that i should’ve ditched my bf for him (obv i said no), and badmouthed not only his gf of a few years since age 16 but also his first time. he left her bc she showed signs of schizophrenia and she blocked all his socials after he left.
he kept guilttripping me when i said i didn’t want to be his gf so ik he doesn’t care about consent regardless of what he says. he also completely ignored me liking women and acted like i was straight but i feel lonely.
i kinda wanna make him happy and have a bf who pays attention to me but ik i’m probably just saying this out of sadness. we were friends but i had to block.
Sounds perfect for this woman with a nearly equal amount of red flags
I’d argue the man is worse. Not saying it’s right, but OP is around 18 and I only see that she wanted to date him out of loneliness. What other red flags do you see that I didn’t catch?
OP, you’re still barely an adult, but using people to get over a breakup is not ok under any circumstances. I get you’re sad, but you’re in no place to date anyone right now