• Adderbox76@lemmy.ca
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    14 hours ago

    The colder the weather gets, the more we tend to be nice. Its just natural when you’re living in a state/province where breaking down on the side of the road in winter can mean death.

    And I’m only half kidding. I do honestly believe that a shared experience of harsh winters creates empathy. Same reason Nordic countries are nice to each other mostly as well.

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      13 hours ago

      That actually tracks

      Look at the “mean” spots: summers get over 110-120 in a lot of those places

      Seem and are mean is the SW, where we keep death valley

      You KNOW people are bigger assholes when it’s hot. We ALL do

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        11 hours ago

        You KNOW people are bigger assholes when it’s hot. We ALL do

        I don’t agree with this at all. That’s not my experience as an Aussie.

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          8 hours ago

          The stars rotate the opposite direction there, so it works the other way. Antarctica is a barren waste for a reason.

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      14 hours ago

      I think there is some truth to this.

      When I lived in an apartment, many times I would shovel my neighbor’s parking spot if it looked like they were working late during a snow storm. There’s nothing worse than coming home after a long day to three feet of snow you have to shovel immediately.

      Or helping someone whose car is stuck in snow and can’t drive away. We’ve all helped at least one person by giving them a push.

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    18 hours ago

    As a Canadian, you can extend the top two up to us and it would still mostly fit.

    I’m on the “acts mean, is nice” side in Ontario, and you all can get fucked 🖕

    Let me help you with carrying your groceries, fuck face.

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      19 hours ago

      C’mon, the coal belt is the definition of acts mean, is nice.

      Bible belt is peak ‘southern hospitality’ though, sweet words covering a spit in the face.

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        19 hours ago

        The coal belt is filled with abandoned elderly, selfish assholes in lifted trucks, religious extremists, and white supremacists.

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          “Well how you doin’, Honey!?”

          in her mind

          Who the fuck is this goddamn oreo ass tramp walking into my fucking store with her fuckin low cut, 5 year old torn up-ass Vans on and her fuckin tattery-ass-lookin-ass bitch-ass fleece hoodie?

          “That’ll be $6.34, Sug!”

          “You have a nice day, now!”

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          The coal belt is filled with abandoned elderly, selfish assholes, religious extremists, and white supremacists.

          Well, yes, there is that too. I’d say you’re more likely to find run-of-the-mill insensitive (and uninterested in improving) racists than out-and-out white supremacists though.

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    22 hours ago

    As a young Tulsan on my first tech support job, it took me ages to figure out that Yanks aren’t as mean as rattlesnakes, they just talk that way.

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      11 hours ago

      As a northerner who lived in Tulsa for four years, I’d say Oklahoma was “Acts nice, are crazy”

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      20 hours ago

      Hawaii: Get the fuck here and hang with us.

      (Plz, we need money to ship things across half the pacific)

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    Downvoted.
    Act Nice between whites ans rich people dont count.
    Silicon fucking valley ? Ask to latinos what they think ans where they are living…

    Im French BTW, and I can see that.

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    I get that this is basically a politcal compass meme overlayed on a map (and also that this is in cartography anarchy), but here’s how I’d actually divide things up based on basically 0 practical experience:

    Acts nice, is nice: West Coast (WA, OR, CA, HI) (WA might have to move down to the next category if they’re feeling surly)

    Acts mean, is nice: Northeast (ME, NH, VT, MA, RI, CT, NY, PA, NJ, MD, DE)

    Acts nice, is mean: Southeast (AR, LA, KY, TN, MS, AL, WV, VA, NC, SC, GA, FL), Midwest (ND, SD, NE, KS, MN, IA, MO, WI, IL, MI, IN, OH), and Alaska

    Acts mean, is mean: The rest (ID, MT, WY, NV, UT, CO, AZ, NM, OK, TX)

    “Acts nice, is mean” still makes up a large part of the country, but “Acts mean, is mean” has been trending up for about a decade now.

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      Quick context, if you ask for directions in Seattle, people will gladly help, but you will see the terror in their eyes that they have to socialize with someone they don’t know.

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        Damn, maybe I was secretly born in Seattle and smuggled to the other side of the country.

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          Better buy yourself a Subaru, a North face jacket, a climbing gym membership, and some weed and Zoloft.

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            Don’t forget your socks and sandals, your SAD happy lamp, knowledge of Ezell’s lore, and oh right, drink your coffee at Starbucks even though you pretend to be anti-corpoate.

            Finally: You must hit yourself in the head with a brick untill the knowledge of how to safely drive in the rain has left your mind.

            Don’t increase your following distance, keep using bald tires, merge even more abrutly and erratically, and actually turn off your headlights that you normally have on full blast at all other times.

            Bonus:

            Complain about how the summers are too cloudy and cold, call I5 ‘the 5’, and act surprised when people already know you’re actually from California.

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              90% is California transplant flags

              Next 10% is saying “I make $300k creating internal systems for streamlining data aggregation for business needs. Dang I love this city, it just needs another glass building- that theater/ historic landmark/ orphanage could totally be bulldozed”